The woes of the African man
By Joseph Osei Oppong Brenya
Why is that in a man, woman relationship in this part of the world the man is supposed to do everything? The man is supposed to prove his love by taking care of the woman, buying her gifts, take her out, attend to her emotional needs. The man is supposed to take care of the woman including her family, the man is supposed to be the one calling, the man supposed to be the one showing love etc
Whiles at it if you fail in one of these the woman starts to chat and meet other men. Whiles you are busy making money to attend to her needs too, she will say you are unromantic because you don’t take her out, you don’t have time for her to cuddle and to be with her so she will start seeing other men.
Reasons why we have a lot of widows and single ladies on the street. They are stressing the men and killing them. If you are a man in this part of the world, these are your responsibilities, paying of rent, buying data and call credit for yourself and your woman, paying water, electricity and other bills paying school fees, paying for sanitation, paying for your woman’s hair, the dress, her food, her everything including her family, buying fuel for her car and yours.
At the end they will use sex which they enjoy most as a weapon against you.
It is not easy to be a man in this part of the world. On top of it, they will frustrate you, disrespect and compare you to other men.
When you are not careful and you loose your cool, you touch her and get to the court they will not listen to your story but straight to remand you either be in prison or police cells.
If you are a man, be smart, don’t worry yourself over many things because if you die today, whiles you are in the morgue someone is fucking her.
Don’t stress yourself and die a useless death, you will regret it and don’t ever hit her, let her go because our system will not even listen to the man before they jail him.
May God give every man the strengh to deal with these issues
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